On Students’ Interpersonal Relationship
Positive interpersonal relationships are vital for optimal human growth and development. However, in recent years, educators have expressed their concern about the ability of interpersonal relationship among students in institutions of higher education. According to a survey conducted by Hebei University, many college-age students regard interpersonal relationship as the biggest headache.
Increasing diversity and rapid changes in our society make interacting with others more and more complex and difficult. With limited life experiences and social skills, college students face more challenges in dealing with interpersonal relationship. This is especially true for students coming from rural areas. Because of the lack of social skills, they are often rejected by others — and rejection gives them even fewer chances to learn how to interact with others.
In my opinion, now that interpersonal relationship is important to students’ development, colleges should offer courses about comprehensive interpersonal relationships. The course should address the knowledge, skills, attitudes and behaviors involved in participating in positive relationships in the family and with individuals at school, in the community and in the workplace.
On Students’ Interpersonal Relationship
Positive interpersonal relationships are vital for optimal human growth and development. However, in recent years, educators have expressed their concern about the ability of interpersonal relationship among students in institutions of higher education. According to a survey conducted by Hebei University, many college-age students regard interpersonal relationship as the biggest headache.
Increasing diversity and rapid changes in our society make interacting with others more and more complex and difficult. With limited life experiences and social skills, college students face more challenges in dealing with interpersonal relationship. This is especially true for students coming from rural areas. Because of the lack of social skills, they are often rejected by others — and rejection gives them even fewer chances to learn how to interact with others.
In my opinion, now that interpersonal relationship is important to students’ development, colleges should offer courses about comprehensive interpersonal relationships. The course should address the knowledge, skills, attitudes and behaviors involved in participating in positive relationships in the family and with individuals at school, in the community and in the workplace.
Nowadays people are becoming increasingly aware of the importance of quality-oriented education.
As far as I’m concerned, the principal difference between exam-oriented education and quality-oriented education is their purpose. They aim at improve students’ skills whether particular for exams or ready for all kinds of challenges in the future. My idea stems generally from two aspects as follows.First, we students are under the pressure of many examinations, such as college entrance examination. This is a fact and everyone should admit it. To improve students’ score, teachers and parents concentrate on developing their skills for exams. In this case, students may gain high marks and get further study.
However, will they manage to overcome challenges and difficulties in the future? No one knows the answer.Second, quality-oriented education mainly aims at improving students’ skills not only for study but also for many other activities. In that case, students may have their own hobbies and abilities so that they can use their intelligence and labor to deal with all kinds of difficulties and challenges.In conclusion, quality-oriented education may make our students excellent people, both good at study and coping other kinds of things. Let’s attach much importance to it!
The picture is talking about a story about neighborhood. Two ladies living in the opposite apartments say “hello” when they happen to meet each other in the corridor. One of them says “I moved here 5 years ago but I never met you before. Could I ask your name please?” The other says” I have been here for 6 years. How should I call you?”
It seems very ridiculous that people living so near don’t know each other for such a long time. However this kind of story is performed everywhere. It is the exact reflection of interpersonal relationships in the modern world. In the modern world most people live in apartments. They close their doors and never go out as soon as they get home from work. If they live alone they will kill their time by watching TV or reading magazines. They don’t have any connections even with their closest neighbors who seem no different from people they meet everyday in the street. They become more and more indifferent.
This phenomenon is no good to us nor to our society. People will feel lonely more and more. The world becomes so indifferent. Interpersonal relationships are not harmonious. It’s time that we took some measures to improve it. People living in the same zone can be organized to have some activities together. We should call on people to be friendly to each other. As a popular song says” If everybody gives a little love to each other the world will become the sea of love.”
Communication between people is of utmost importance.The importance cannot be stressed too much.
It is said in the Bible that once upon a time,humans communicated with each other in one language.So they attempted to build the Babel Tower to communicate with God,only to find such dream was a castle in the air.In the aftermath,humans were trapped into troubles due to the misunderstandings between them.The jealous God plunged us into such bitterness.Even now,people with different races and religions are dragged into endless wars.People are crying and dying!Such consequences are rooted deeply in the lack of communication.Therefore,lack of communication will lead to perish of human beings.
On the contrary,mutual understanding can be well-established between people if we communicate with each other.That is,the rapport between two countries will be strengthened and the misunderstanding will be reduced if there is a dialogue channel.Likewise,friends can become closer if they argue with each other.No one likes to but it is necessary to be healthy.Arguments between people are a way of communication,by which we can find a solution to the conflictions between us.Consequently,we promote the mutual understanding.
To conclude,through communication,mutual understanding can be promoted and fostered between people with difference races,religions,sex and ideologies.One way is to argue (not totally means quarrels) during the communication to clarify the different views.Lack of communication will surely lead to perish of mankind.
In addition to the university knowledge, the most critical and most basic is the human capacity,
Wherein the culture interpersonal skills is particularly important.
We college students as the successors of socialist construction is particularly important to establish good interpersonal relationships. University is an important turning point towards interpersonal socialization, into the university,
You will encounter
All aspects of relationships: between teachers and students, between students and classes, the relationship between the individual and the other schools
Wait. Built on the university campus good relationships, form a solidarity, vibrant environment that will benefit students in the formation and development of a healthy personality traits.
How to handle relationships, for a few years of college life and future career success it is essential to develop good interpersonal efficiency capability, not only the needs of university life, but also in the future to meet the needs of society.
A no communicative ability, as boat on land is never drift to the magnificent sea to go.
Why interpersonal relationships so important? First, interpersonal exchange of information,
An important way to acquire knowledge; second, interpersonal individual self-understanding,
An important means of self-improvement; third, interpersonal is a collective growth and social development needs. Over the years, students in the college entrance examination baton long,
Too much emphasis on the pursuit of achievement while ignoring the other qualities of culture and other interpersonal skills. After entering the universities,
Few schools have a special system training courses, resulting in some students a high IQ, EQ is very low,
Often Processing
How to get along well with others, communicate, communicate. In the university campus job fair held, employee communication and communication skills increasingly become the main driving force for enterprise in the market competition to win,
Thus the employer in the recruitment of more attention seekers "EQ"
. Faced with the employer out of the terms of employment, more and more students feel the importance of interpersonal skills.
When I first set my eyes on a father and his daughter, I heard the father ask about his daughter's school life. To my surprise, the girl told his father to read her blog so that he can get what he wants.
Now, the Internet has been playing an increasingly important role in our day-to-day life. It has influenced us a lot, especially on our interpersonal communication.
For one thing, the Internet makes the interpersonal communication more convenient. We can contact with each other no matter when and where. The Internet makes full use of time and space. What’s more, we can also share our daily life and knowledge through QQ, MSN, and blog with others. For another thing, the Internet speeds up our interpersonal communication. We can save time to do our work. However, the Internet also brings about many problems, such as safety problems, cheating and so on. Many people spend too much time on the Internet, and they don't have time to interact with person in real life, which result in the absence of ability in communication in reality.
It has both advantages and disadvantages to interact through the Internet. We can get to the problem in our work and study. Last but not lest, we have to talk with people and develop our ability to communicate in reality.
Human interaction, more than changing each other, but to accept each other, if want to change each other, it is not life, that is war. Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice, it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. Detour straight people are smart, because find a shortcut; the straight road bends are open-minded, because they can see more scenery. The road is not feet, road in the heart.
With the indifferent attitude, good reconcile oneself to one's situation life. -- "Du Lala promotion"
To come sooner or later, want to love though, we who also can't win the race against time. Calm and indifferent in the face of everything, you meet people you like, want to cherish the fate. Whether is it right? You the life of the traveler, or a long-term friend, life is wonderful memories. There are a few real friends are rare in this love, please don't care, cherish the present.
True love, is can let a person touch eternity. The man, ten years, twenty years later, still stay in our hearts, let us look back, surprised feel the heartbeat, as close as yesterday, alarmed by the passage of time, if a short. Maybe today, people have been scattered in the sea, the wind scattered the clouds float past already, unchanged, but such a hard, still in our heart. Sun flower "-- not"
Two people together, begin to always be struck with fright, worry about personal gains and losses, with in-depth understanding, mystery fade, will slowly lose their freshness, passion fade away. At this time, the most important communication, may no longer be very worried about each other, but there is a tacit understanding is produced in sufficient communication and trust, and a run-in very good friends, relax and practical, is a good embodiment of love. Time is spent passion, at the same time, time will accumulate deep.
Pain is inevitable, the wounds of the flowers in full bloom, dotted with our memories of the landscape. Each time the injured, let us consider, searching for the meaning of life; let us mature, always have to give up something, to bid farewell to their original; let us strong, heal the wounds can let us bear more; let us treasure, easy get who don't care, only pain after just understand, once lost is so precious.
On Students’ Interpersonal Relationship
Positive interpersonal relationships are vital for optimal human growth and development. However, in recent years, educators have expressed their concern about the ability of interpersonal relationship among students in institutions of higher education. According to a survey conducted by Hebei University, many college-age students regard interpersonal relationship as the biggest headache.
Increasing diversity and rapid changes in our society make interacting with others more and more complex and difficult. With limited life experiences and social skills, college students face more challenges in dealing with interpersonal relationship. This is especially true for students coming from rural areas. Because of the lack of social skills, they are often rejected by others — and rejection gives them even fewer chances to learn how to interact with others.
In my opinion, now that interpersonal relationship is important to students’ development, colleges should offer courses about comprehensive interpersonal relationships. The course should address the knowledge, skills, attitudes and behaviors involved in participating in positive relationships in the family and with individuals at school, in the community and in the workplace.
Classmate conflicts among senior middle school students are often heard on campus over recent years. These conflicts make the excitement of campus life grow grey and have bad effects on both their living and learning.
Classmate conflicts often rise from daily tiny things such as space where to store books or notes. When personalities don’t mix, the specifics can tear classmates apart and sometimes even lead to serious conflicts. Besides, the fact that classmates hold different attitudes towards certain issues is another factor causing these conflicts.
Classmate conflicts are harmful and need to be settled. Though many people think that school discipline can soften the conflicts, I believe learning to be tolerant with each other can play a more constructive role because it teaches students flexibility and the art of compromise. Meanwhile, communication contributes to the solution to this problem since many of these conflicts result from misunderstanding.
Recently on the magazine to see such an article "and" show "about three words", today I also give you the story.
Since childhood is brother "heels. Brother on every test to get the first place, and I like himself took the same happy. See a person say: "my brother be hungry, examination always first!" That joy is no one can realize. A father said to me: "again not your exam must first, you happy what! Remember, don't take someone else's stuff to show yourself!" Then I remember the first sentence on "show" words -- don't take someone else's stuff to flaunt himself.
By our own intelligent and diligent test also always take the first, I began to secretly pleased. I think everything in my eyes becomes small. Classmate ask me a question and I also love grievance, still pie pie said: "so simple you all can't, really stupid, you see me!" Is my gloat, father and talked: "you can self-confident, but can not proud, remember, don't always show yourself!" Then I remember the second sentence about "show" words -- don't always flaunt himself.
When she went to college, in the school organization of the chess tournament prize, bring home to a trophy. Little nephew saw, is very like, take to play. He take a trophy and his PALS together ", "said his boast about how great uncle, his friend right away in his" FengReShenMing ". Father saw say to me: "you don't let him take your things, and that will only spoil bad. Remember, don't let others take your things to show off!" Then I remember the third sentence on "show" saying - don't let others take oneself thing to show off.
Father said only brief three words but let me for a lifetime.
The father of three words are false to the person's bad, is to pursue high moral incentive. When you put out the "show off", select modesty, then you'll for a lifetime.
When I first set my eyes on a father and his daughter, I heard the father ask about his daughter's school life. To my surprise, the girl told his father to read her blog so that he can get what he wants.
Now, the Internet has been playing an increasingly important role in our day-to-day life. It has influenced us a lot, especially on our interpersonal communication.For one thing, the Internet makes the interpersonal communication more convenient. We can contact with each other no matter when and where. The Internet makes full use of time and space. What’s more, we can also share our daily life and knowledge through QQ, MSN, and blog with others. For another thing, the Internet speeds up our interpersonal communication. We can save time to do our work. However, the Internet also brings about many problems, such as safety problems, cheating and so on. Many people spend too much time on the Internet, and they don't have time to interact with person in real life, which result in the absence of ability in communication in reality.
It has both advantages and disadvantages to interact through the Internet. We can get to the problem in our work and study. Last but not lest, we have to talk with people and develop our ability to communicate in reality.
Good manners are really important in one's social life.Good manners show your friends and partners or mostly people you meet the first time what a person you are.It reveals personal characteristics like if you are respectful,arrogant,or humble.Let us use the example of an interview.A company finds out a lot about you through the way you act,especially in oriental countries.How you behave is so crucial that sometimes they will decide on whether they will take you just based on your manners.
Not not does good manners affect you in business situations but it also helps you to get along with your friends.People always like humble friends.Your manners will also show your social class.If you have good manners people will know that you recieved good education.
Good manners are important in various places as explained above.It really shows how nice and excellent a person you are.
I sit at the same table has a little face,small eyes,look a little scary,white teeth,but I will see a arrayed,for a stronger player to help her.Who?Have WangShuXian,ChenQiuMing,ChenShenJun.
She is very fierce.Once,she helper ChenShenJun and I had a contradiction,she immediately call her help,and I happened with a "war",see me would not sustain the,yi!They how to run there?It is QinYeQi "attack" them.Because QinYeQi is my helper,and,behold,I was "attack",immediately to "save",and draws people,"play" have they dragged in,be defeated and flee.The results of class and she kicked me two feet.
She likes to independence,finish the assignment early once,she has a few questions,I will not go to teach her,she said:"you taught me to have what use?Teach wrong?" I fire emit three zhangs,a look,I write to.I really made a once in a while,she fought back and I play,I thought:the right answer,the answer to the teacher don't,really bad!
You may not know her,her name is sheep,because we don't love her,then gave "mutton string".Her name call-the sheep.
With the development of our society, the connection between people becomes inevitable. People need to communicate with others as long as they are in the world. As a result, the interpersonal relationship becomes more and more important.
First of all, a good interpersonal relation promote people become successful. Through the human history, we can summarize that no one can do everything well and become successful alone. Most of the great men have a good relationship among people. For many peole, interpersonal relationship and their ability are equal important to their success. Keeping a good relationship with others, peole can easily get assistance from others when facing difficulties. In other words,excellent interpersonal communication skills can help remove obstacles on the way to success. Secondly,a good interpersonal relation can help people live a happy life. Living in a harmonious environment need people keep a good relationship with the people around. The friendly people will form a happy atmosphere. That will make people work efficient and keep a good mood in the daily life. It is certain that people will receive happiness in the end.
To sum up, as interpersonal relationship is so essential to people’s success and happiness, I advocate people get along well with with others. The first thing is smile more everyday.